Let me kick off this post by dropping a big old truth-bomb on you: it’s really easy to see other people’s ‘stuff’... and much, much harder to see our own.

"If you don’t own something, you don’t have control over it…"

Most people, in the lead up to their wedding, do a lot of work on themselves. And by that, I mean they hire a personal trainer, flog the shit out of their bodies and go on crazy-restrictive fad diets. But not me.

I was having dinner last week with one of my besties, my soul sister and absolute love….. (God, I love my friends!) Anyways, back to the point. She mentioned to me that one of her friends feels very triggered by me.